The safest road to good relationship

In early childhood, boys and girls play together innocently. this could be a kind of love that is very valuable and important .the relationship may mean being with each other laughing, talking, sharing experiences or possessions.
relationship can go to the extent of “falling in love”. This kind of adolescent love is just an infatuation which is superficial .The boy fall in love with the girl because of her beauty, pretty curves, long hairs or vice versa for the girls. Whether infatuation or real love(adult love),falling in love is a wonderful and powerful experience which is beyond one’s imagination. Lovers worship and adore each other and can do little else except think and dream about each other. After a year or two at most, these young lovers start feeling cold about one another and can grow apart because they want something different out of life. Their relationship are like experiments. They are learning the different between love and lust .they may be unfortunate to be victim of lust, because other men will equally love as the first love only to exploit them and later dump them. the fact of the issue is that the girls are always blind to see as they have eyes but cannot see realities dawning on them until they fall prey to these lurking wolves. they tell them sweet things to lure them. a good relationship can also share secrets . when the relationship moves to “falling in love”, then, there is a confidence between the lovers. other important things needed to build a successful relationship are observation,advice,understanding and LOVE.